DMM v MW (Family Appeal E103 of 2024) [2025] KEHC 12588 (KLR) (Family) (16 September 2025) (Judgment) Neutral citation: [2025] KEHC 12588 (KLR) REPUBLIC OF KENYA IN THE HIGH COURT AT NAIROBI (MILIMANI LAW COURTS) FAMILY FAMILY APPEAL E103 OF 2024 H NAMISI, J SEPTEMBER 16, 2025 BETWEEN DMM .......................................................................................................... APPELLANT AND MW ......................................................................................................... RESPONDENT (Being an Appeal against a part of the Judgement, decree and orders of Hon. E. M. Nyakundi (SRM) delivered on 25 July 2024 in Milimani Divorce Cause No. E1148 of 2023) Circumstances a court would order a spouse or former spouse to pay maintenance In the instant case, the appellant argued that the trial court wrongly awarded maintenance that had not been pleaded and was unsupported by evidence, particularly as no Affidavit of Means was filed and the respondent had admitted she was a businesswoman and tailor. However., the respondent maintained that the award was justified under section 77(1) of the Marriage Act and the court’s discretionary powers. The appellate court therefore held that parties were bound by their pleadings and that, in the absence of proof of need, the finding of destitution was erroneous; it therefore set aside the maintenance order. Reported by Flora Weru Civil Practice and Procedure - pleadings – sanctity of pleadings –claim that the grant of order of maintenance was not pleaded- whether a court may grant a relief that had not been specifically pleaded – Civil Procedure Act, Cap.21. Family Law – marriages – dissolution of marriage – remedies upon divorce – maintenance / alimony – scope of court’s powers in granting maintenance as a remedy in divorce proceedings – circumstances a court would order a spouse to pay maintenance- what are the circumstances a court would order a spouse or former spouse to pay maintenance – Marriage Act, Cap.150, section 77. Evidence Law –burden of proof - burden of proof in divorce petitions -what was the burden of proof and the evidential requirement for a spouse seeking maintenance to demonstrate financial need under the law – where https://new.kenyalaw.org/akn/ke/judgment/kehc/2025/12588/eng@2025-09-16 1
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the respondent placed no evidence before the trial court to substantiate her need for maintenance - whether a court can properly award maintenance in the absence of evidence demonstrating need for maintenance Brief facts The instant appeal arose from a Divorce Cause in which the appellant had petitioned for dissolution of his marriage on grounds that it had irretrievably broken down and had faced irreconcilable difierences, seeking that each party bear their own costs and any other appropriate relief. The respondent opposed the petition, contending that the marital problems were ordinary disputes and did not amount to an irretrievable breakdown. After a viva voce hearing and the filing of Affidavits of Means, the trial court dissolved the marriage and, relying on the oxygen principle and section 77 of the Marriage Act, awarded the respondent monthly maintenance of Kshs 50,000 despite maintenance not having been pleaded. Aggrieved, the appellant lodged the present appeal challenging that award. Issues i. Whether a court could grant a relief that had not been specifically pleaded. ii. What circumstances did the court consider in granting a spouse or former spouse maintenance? iii. What was the burden of proof and the evidential requirement for a spouse seeking maintenance to demonstrate financial need under the law? iv. Whether a court could properly award maintenance in the absence of evidence demonstrating need for maintenance. Held 1. The role of the instant Court as the appellate Court of first instance was well settled. The Court was duty bound to revisit the evidence on record, evaluate it and reach its own conclusion in the matter. The instant Court, nevertheless, appreciated that an appellate Court would not ordinarily interfere with findings of fact by the trial Court unless they were based on no evidence at all, or on a misapprehension of it or the Court was shown demonstrably to have acted on wrong principles in reaching the findings. 2. The general principle With regards to the sanctity of pleadings was beyond peradventure. Parties were bound by their pleadings. The purpose of that rule was to provide the opposing party with fair notice of the case they were to meet, to define with clarity the issues in controversy and to prevent the trial from becoming an amorphous and unpredictable exercise. 3. Whereas article 159(2) (d) of the and the oxygen principle in the were relevant in the conduct of civil proceedings, they were not helpful in the instant case because the respondent did not specifically plead alimony in form of counterclaim or cross petition. 4. Section 77(1) of the gave the Court the power to order payment of maintenance to a spouse or former spouse in situations of desertion, neglect to provide for the spouse or during matrimonial proceedings, with the court considering factors like the standard of living during the marriage and each party's income when determining the amount and duration of maintenance; essentially allowing either spouse to seek financial support from the other upon divorce depending on the circumstances of the marriage. Though discretionary, that power must be exercised judiciously, based on legal evidence and guided by established legal principles. 5. Maintenance was not a right to be claimed as a matter of course. It was a remedy intended to provide a safety net for a spouse who was financially disadvantaged by the marital breakdown and was unable, for valid reasons, to support themselves. The burden of proof lay squarely on the applicant to demonstrate the need for maintenance. That required such an applicant to place before the court sufficient material to prove their financial position including their income, assets, expenses and liabilities. That was done through an affidavit of Means. That information would enable the trial court to make an informed decision on whether, from evidence on record and applicable law, the respondent was entitled to alimony/maintenance or not and if so, how much? https://new.kenyalaw.org/akn/ke/judgment/kehc/2025/12588/eng@2025-09-16 2
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6. There were no affidavits of means filed, despite the trial court’s directions to file the same. Since the respondent did not raise any objection on the completeness of the record, it was assumed that no such affidavits were filed before the trial court. The question that arose then was if the trial court’s decision to award alimony to the respondent was supported by evidence. 7. The finding of the trial court that the respondent was destitute was a palpable misapprehension of the evidence. That finding was in direct and irreconcilable contradiction with the respondent’s own sworn testimony. In her testimony, the respondent indicated that she was a business woman. On cross examination, she added that she was a tailor by profession. The term ‘destitute’ connoted a state of utter penury, a complete lack of means for subsistence. A person who ran a business and possessed a professional skill, however modest their income may be, could not be described as destitute. 8. Beyond the respondent's oral plea that she had no help, the respondent placed no evidence before the trial court to substantiate her need for maintenance. The record was entirely bereft of the financial particulars of her business and expenses necessary to justify an award of Kshs 50,000/= per month. The respondent failed to discharge her burden of proving her need for alimony. Appeal allowed; order of trial court directing the appellant to pay the Respondent a monthly maintenance of Kshs 50,000/= set aside. Orders Each party shall bear its own costs. Citations Cases Kenya 1. Kiruga v Kiruga & another Civil Appeal 52 of 1985; [1988] KECA 122 (KLR) - (Applied) 2. Mwanasokoni v Kenya Bus Services Ltd Civil Appeal 35 of 1985; [1985] KECA 82 (KLR); (1982-88) 1 KAR 278 - (Applied) 3. RPM v PKM Divorce Cause 154 of 2008; [2012] KEHC 5407 (KLR) - (Explained) 4. SMR v PHS Divorce Cause 5 of 2012; [2013] KEHC 2602 (KLR) - (Explained) 5. WMM v BML Divorce Cause 179 of 2008; [2012] KEHC 2825 (KLR) - (Explained) 6. WWW v PMM [2015] eKLR - (Explained) Regional Court Mbogo & another v Shah [1968] EA 93 - (Explained) Statutes Kenya 1. Civil Procedure Act (Cap 21) In general - (Cited) 2. Constitution of Kenya articles 45(3); 159(2) (d) - (Interpreted) 3. Marriage Act (Cap 150) section 77(1) - (Interpreted) Advocates Mr. Gakaria for the respondent. JUDGMENT 1. This appeal arises from a divorce cause in the trial court, in which the petitioner, the appellant herein, sought the following orders: i. The marriage between the petitioner with the said respondent celebrated and solemnized on August 19, 2000 be dissolved; https://new.kenyalaw.org/akn/ke/judgment/kehc/2025/12588/eng@2025-09-16 3
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ii. Each party to bear their own costs; iii. Any other relief that the court shall deem fit to issue. 2. The appellant based his petition on the grounds that the marriage had irretrievably broken down and irreconcilable difierences. 3. In her answer to petition, the respondent denied the grounds alleged by the appellant. She averred that although their marriage had been rocked with problems, the appellant had not moved out of their matrimonial home, as alleged by the appellant. As a matter of fact, their difierences between the parties were common disputes between married couples and the marriage had not irretrievably broken down. The respondent urged the trial court to dismiss the petition. 4. The matter proceeded with viva voce hearing whereat the parties adopted their respective witness statements. At the end of the trial, the trial court directed parties to file their respective affidavits of means. When the matter came up for mention to confirm compliance, counsel for the appellant informed the court that issue of maintenance had not been raised in the pleadings. Counsel for the respondent did not attend court on the material day. 5. In its judgement, the trial court noted that although the aspect of alimony was not raised by any of the parties, the respondent appeared destitute and homeless due to the appellant. Based on the oxygen principal and the affidavits of means, as well as section 77 of the Marriage Act, the trial court noted that the appellant had neglected the respondent. For that reason, the trial court entered judgement as prayed by the appellant but also ordered that the maintenance be paid by the appellant to the respondent in the sum of Kshs 50,000/= every 5th day of the month. It is this particular order that precipitated the current appeal. 6. Aggrieved by the judgement, the appellant lodged this appeal on the following grounds: i. That the learned trial Magistrate erred in both law and fact by making a finding that the respondent is entitled to monthly maintenance of Kshs 50,000/= to be paid by the appellant before the 5th day of every month; ii. That the learned trial Magistrate erred in both law and fact by awarding alimony to the respondent whereas the same was not pleaded by any of the parties; iii. That the learned trial Magistrate erred in both law and fact by making a finding that the respondent was destitute and hence entitled to alimony whereas during the hearing the respondent testified that she was a businesswoman running her own business; iv. That the learned trial Magistrate erred in both law and fact by awarding alimony to the respondent whereas there was no evidence adduced to justify the same. 7. Based on the foregoing, the appellant prays that the appeal be allowed by setting aside the orders issued by the trial court directing that maintenance be paid to the respondent. 8. The appeal was canvassed by way of written submissions. Analysis and Determination 9. I have considered the grounds of appeal and the rival submissions. This being a first appeal, the role of this court as the appellate court of first instance is well settled. This court is duty bound to revisit the evidence on record, evaluate it and reach its own conclusion in the matter. This court, nevertheless, appreciates that an appellate court will not ordinarily interfere with findings of fact by the trial court https://new.kenyalaw.org/akn/ke/judgment/kehc/2025/12588/eng@2025-09-16 4
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unless they were based on no evidence at all, or on a misapprehension of it or the court is shown demonstrably to have acted on wrong principles in reaching the findings as was held in Mwanasokoni v Kenya Bus Service Ltd. (1982-88) 1 KAR 278 and Kiruga v Kiruga & another (1988) KLR 348. 10. Further in Mbogo & another v Shah [1968] EA 93, the court stated: “ …That this court will not interfere with the exercise of…discretion by an inferior court unless it is satisfied that its decision is clearly wrong, because it has misdirected itself or because it has acted on matters on which is should not have acted or because it failed to take into consideration matters which it should have taken into consideration and in doing so arrived at a wrong conclusion.” 11. In WMM v BML, HCDC No 179 of 2009, it was stated maintenance as follows; “ In the light of article 45(3), the criterion in determining the rights and obligations of spouses in a marriage must treat the husband and the wife as equals and neither has a greater or lesser obligation than the other in relation to maintenance. In short, in cases where, as here, spouses have no children, a wife does not enjoy advantage over a husband or the vice versa and the age-old tradition in which men were deemed to be the sole bread winners and to carry the burden of maintaining their spouses does not hold true anymore. Under the Constitution, the respondent has a duty to support and maintain herself no less than the petitioner has to support himself and there is no greater obligation on the part of the petitioner to support himself than there is on the part of the respondent to support herself. No spouse who is capable of earning should be allowed to shirk his or her responsibility to support himself or herself or turn the other spouse into a beast of burden...” 12. The appeal herein is based on the maintenance of the respondent by the appellant. The first and substantial ground of the appeal raises a point of law that goes to the heart of our adversarial system of justice: the sanctity of pleadings. The appellant’s position is that the trial court acted outside its jurisdiction by granting a relief that was never pleaded. 13. The general principle is beyond peradventure. Parties are bound by their pleadings. The purpose of this rule is to provide the opposing party with fair notice of the case they are to meet, to define with clarity the issues in controversy, and to prevent the trial from becoming an amorphous and unpredictable exercise. 14. Whereas article 159(2)(d) of the Constitution and the oxygen principle in the Civil Procedure Act are relevant in the conduct of civil proceedings, they are not helpful in the instant case because the respondent did not specifically plead alimony in form of counterclaim and/or cross petition. This position was reinforced in WWW v PMM (2015) eKLR, where Justice Musyoka held; “ The pleading filed by the Respondent is an answer to petition. An answer to petition is just that, a pleading responding to the allegations made in a divorce petition. A respondent, who wishes to counter the petition by the petitioner, by asking the court to dissolve the marriage on his terms, should file his own petition for the dissolution of marriage founded on grounds to be set out in the counter petition. Although the respondent has prayed for the dissolution of the marriage in his answer to the petition, it is my view that the said is without foundation so long as there is no counter-claim or counter-petition. The upshot of the above is that the orders sought in the answer to the petition are not available for reasons given above” https://new.kenyalaw.org/akn/ke/judgment/kehc/2025/12588/eng@2025-09-16 5
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15. The court’s power to grant alimony is provided in section 77(1) of the Marriage Act which states: The court may order a person to pay maintenance to a spouse or a former spouse— (a) if the person has refused or neglected to provide for the spouse or former spouse as required by this Act; (b) if the person has deserted the other spouse or former spouse, for as long as the desertion continues; (c) during the course of any matrimonial proceedings; (d) when granting or after granting a decree of separation or divorce; or (e) if, after making a decree of presumption of death, the spouse or former is found to be alive. 16. The provision gives the court the power to order payment of maintenance to a spouse or former spouse in situations of desertion, neglect to provide for the spouse or during matrimonial proceedings, with the court considering factors like the standard of living during the marriage and each party's income when determining the amount and duration of maintenance; essentially allowing either spouse to seek financial support from the other upon divorce depending on the circumstances of the marriage. Though discretionary, this power must be exercised judiciously, based on legal evidence and guided by established legal principles. 17. In RPM v PKM [2015] eKLR and in SMR v PHS [2013] eKLR it was observed that: “ The financial capacity of the parties has to be examined before the court makes a ruling as to whether a spouse should pay maintenance and if so how much.” 18. Maintenance is not a right to be claimed as a matter of course. It is a remedy intended to provide a safety net for a spouse who is financially disadvantaged by the marital breakdown and is unable, for valid reasons, to support themselves. The burden of proof lies squarely on the applicant to demonstrate the need for maintenance. This requires such an applicant to place before the court sufficient material to prove their financial position including their income, assets, expenses and liabilities. This is done through an affidavit of Means. This information would enable the trial court to make an informed decision on whether, from evidence on record and applicable law, the respondent is entitled to alimony/ maintenance or not and if so, how much? 19. Having keenly perused the record of appeal, i note that there are no affidavits of means filed, despite the trial court’s directions to file the same. Since the respondent did not raise any objection on the completeness of the record, it is assumed that no such affidavits were filed before the trial court. The question that arises then is if the trial court’s decision to award alimony to the respondent is supported by evidence. 20. It is my considered view that the finding of the trial court that the Respondent was destitute is a palpable misapprehension of the evidence. This finding is in direct and irreconcilable contradiction with the respondent’s own sworn testimony. In her testimony, the respondent indicated that she is a business woman. On cross examination, she added that she is a tailor by profession. The term ‘destitute’ connotes a state of utter penury, a complete lack of means for subsistence. A person who runs a business and possesses a professional skill, however modest their income may be, cannot be described as destitute. https://new.kenyalaw.org/akn/ke/judgment/kehc/2025/12588/eng@2025-09-16 6
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21. Further, beyond her oral plea that she had no help, the respondent placed no evidence before the trial court to substantiate her need to maintenance. The record is entirely bereft of the financial particulars of her business and expenses necessary to justify an award of Kshs 50,000/= per month. The Respondent failed to discharge her burden of proving her need for alimony. 22. In view of the foregoing, the appeal is merited and must be allowed. The order of Hon EM Nyakundi (SRM) issued on July 25, 2024 in Milimani Divorce Cause No E1148 of 2023 directing the appellant to pay the respondent a monthly maintenance of Kshs 50,000/= is hereby set aside in its entirety. 23. This being a family matter, each party shall bear its own costs. DATED AND DELIVERED AT NAIROBI THIS 16 DAY OF SEPTEMBER 2025 HELENE R. NAMISI JUDGE OF THE HIGH COURT Delivered on virtual platform in the presence of: For Appellant: N/A For Respondent: Mr. Gakaria Court Assistant: Lucy Mwangi https://new.kenyalaw.org/akn/ke/judgment/kehc/2025/12588/eng@2025-09-16 7
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